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Posted by on January 20, 2011 1:03 am

Why Men Cheat?

This has been such an interesting topic of conversation over the past few weeks. Being the love coach that I am I am constantly looking to see what challenges people the most in life. This topic of people cheating especially men really pushes alot of women’s buttons. I’ve been looking to see why and also why it’s such a sore wound for so many women and why they are so wounded by it?

I have come to many conclusions throughout this process and they have been very interesting. First thing is that both men and women need to be ten times more accountable to themselves and therefore eachother in their relationships before they even get started. Most people enter into relationships for all the wrong reasons in the first place. Most people are coming to relationships with way too much baggage and past hurts. They have no chance when it comes to a long lasting healthy relationship because they are bringing all of their unfinished hurts with them along the way. You don’t have a chance in hell when doing this! People must realize that to have a healthy relationship you must not NEED anything! You must not need to have some void filled by another person to make you feel complete. You must be whole and complete yourself or at least working on it vigorously with the intent and the awareness that you might put your crap on that other person at any given time! But be responsible for this…

Cheating comes into play only because we as people either get bored or haven’t been totally honest up front and then are too afraid to discuss our real feelings in the moment. We are all sexual creatures and have many many desires everyday and if you think that only one person will satisfy these desires you may be in for a big surprise or let down. I’m not saying that two people can’t be happily married and have a great sex life… I’m not. I’m saying that the only way I know to be in a committed relationship and still feel like a normal man is to allow myself my attractions and not hide from them. I’m not going to act upon them in a way that is going to hurt my partner but I must be able to be honest about how I feel, for if not, then I am supressing the man that I am and when you truly love someone you love them for that too. I love that my girlfriend can be honest with me about other guys because it truly shows me that she chooses me despite any said attraction.

Women need to wake up and realize that it’s not about THE CHEATING… it’s that you truly feel lied to and less than in your relationship! Part of the time it’s an ego thing that gets you. Food for thought… Love yourself and pay attention to the signs in your life!!! Are you giving from overflow or from your own EGO??? You tell me…
If you’re so worried about being cheated on in a relationship your focus is 100 percent in the wrong direction. If you’re not feeing the love and romance you seek you better wake up and realize that your man is not feeling it either and that can lead to straying. Remember BOTH MEN AND WOMEN cheat!!! Don’t be fooled…
There is no safety net!
Brad The Love Coach!!!

 

 

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