After being a bachelor for a decade and a half (assuming we start counting at age 18), my relationships began to change, or what most would say, "improve." At first it didn't look a lot different on the outside. Some encounters were first dates only, some where 2-3 dates, and one has become my life partner. I call this "success&qu... Read More >

A fan of The Male Room asked me, “when people have one-night stands, why do women get more attached, and to men it’s just sex?”

Before I answer, it’s important to note that The Male Room’s purpose is to bring awareness to these situations. It’s not to sugar coat the bad news and it&rsquo... Read More >

The Male Room receives dozens of messages asking questions or sharing stories about romance in the workplace. In this blog I’ll address the basics as well as the very common situation where at least one of the people is already married.

IT MAKES SENSE

The truth (which is often overlooked) is many people spen... Read More >

I recently posted a question on Facebook asking women why they thought men lie. The answers that came back included “they have a congenital defect,” “once a liar always a liar,” and my personal favorite, “men are pussies (I’d never actually seen the word ‘pussy’ in it’s plural form before).&r... Read More >

This question seems to arrive in The Male Room inbox almost everyday. And I understand it - generally it's fueled by a misconception that being in a relationship is an accomplishment and a fear of being alone. With the holidays coming up, this is particularly relevant. 

From our very earliest experiences we observe pe... Read More >

I’m writing this blog about how I’ve realized how much lying and dishonesty there is out in the world of romantic relationships and how internet sites like Facebook or Myspace are the perfect mirror reflection for where you are at with yourself and your relationship honesty.

Through my own experience with dating and being on ... Read More >

One of the most amazing things that happened to me during the creation of our show “The Male Room” was that I found my purpose as a man. It took me 35 years and falling down more times than I can count to realize it but there it was… I could see it cut like a lightning bolt through the clouds and literally touch me on it&rsquo... Read More >

You’ll often hear us talk about ego or suggest to a guest they are “coming from ego.” You'll also hear us suggest to guests they explore "self love." Here's more about what this means and how they're related to each other:

By definition, ego is “an inflated feeling of prid... Read More >

This has been such an interesting topic of conversation over the past few weeks. Being the love coach that I am I am constantly looking to see what challenges people the most in life. This topic of people cheating especially men really pushes alot of women's buttons. I've been looking to see why and also why it's such a sore wound for so many wo... Read More >